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Sexplain It: I Want to Meet Gay Guys, but They Don't Want to Date Me

I'm Zachary Zane, a sex writer, composer, and ethical Boyslut (a like way of saying I slumber with a lot of people, and I'm very, very unlock about it). Over the years, I've had my fair split of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. In doing so, I've learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). I'm here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable suggestions that isn't just "communicate with your partner" because you perceive that already. Ask me anything—literally, anything—and I will gladly Sexplain It.

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Dear Sexplain It,

To start, I am a grand, affectionately fat, bi, Black human, and I've never really had a consistent group of lgbtq+ friends. I grew up in Texas and was very selective about how "out" I was. Even when I moved to a more comfortable place, the ways I made friends didn't really

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The pressure to be sexy all the time can often lead to unhealthy habits and attitudes, but there is always positive value in feeling excellent in our own bodies.

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With constantly extending work hours in the mix, you’ll want to be resourceful and eager to actually move the extra mile. But here are a few tips to include in your daily routine that should net you some results in just a several weeks.

Clean up your dietary act

You’ve probably heard that a solid diet prepare is half your health, and

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