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Re: i'm a female & i'm (sexually) attracted to same-sex attracted guys
Unread postby Sam W »
Got it, so it does sound favor a big part of this simply has to undertake with a certain type of guy (but not the only type of guy) you come across attractive.
When you want to be a guy in those moments, what is it, specifically, that you want? Is it to be competent to engage in certain things sexually? To have a certain role in a sexual dynamic? Something else? And when you speak this happens when you see sweet gay guys in your surroundings, are those guys who you know are gay, or who look a certain way?
With fetishizing or objectifying people, that depends on whether you spot these guys as individual, unique humans or more as a blank slate that you can project your desires onto. It's also sound to reflect about what's attracting you to them and how much of it might be based on stereotypes about that specific group (it might be the case that none of it is) rather than the realities of that individual person.
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This is why straight men sometimes seek out gay sex.
Why do some straight men have sex with other men?